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   After being raised around 4 divorces and 6 marriages, going to 9 different schools by the 8th grade, growing up around alcoholism, neglect, abuse plus being on and off welfare, I can confidently say that I have lived through some difficult and rough times.

   As a child I thought that I was the only one going through tough times like this, but guess what happened as I grew up?

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   I recognized that not only was I not the only one going through tough times...but everyone has gone through, is going through and will be going through their own tough times. In comparison, many of you reading this would probably make my eyes fall out with tears if I heard your story because it would make mine look like a life of a prince.

And someone could make your story look like a walk in the park...it's all relative.

Remember this...everybody, no matter who they are or what level of success (or failure) they have achieved deals with life challenges, difficulties, and many times seemingly insurmountable obstacles in their life.

Do you want to know why some people lead lives of happiness and peace regardless of these crazy and wild circumstances that surround them?

They choose to be happy! They choose to be at peace! They choose a different perspective on life. They choose happiness!

I am one of those people, and even as I type this there are things happening in my life that not even the closest of friends or relatives even know about that would make many of them cry...and definitely ask how I could be so happy and calm about these things.

As I typed that last sentence I was thinking of how to explain why I am so happy now regardless of unbelievably BAD (as society) would label them things are happening in my life at this very moment.

"Don't Sweat the Small Stuff and It's All Small Stuff"

Sure that's a title of a best selling book from a few years ago, but that pretty much summarizes it.

You want more details?

OK...here it goes.

I've seen the other side. I know the peace waiting for me when my time is up here on earth.

You see I live a win-win situation REGARDLESS of the crap could weigh me down if I chose to focus on it.

What does that mean?

Everyday that I wake up, it is a true blessing and I am going to do my best to make the most of this day which is a gift to me (and it is called the present). My goal is to be a little bit better as a person than I was yesterday...and when that occurs you'd be amazed at what can happen in a week, a month, a year, a decade.

I'll tell you what happens to me. I have peace, happiness, joy, gratefulness, and love every day of my life...and my dreams become reality.

Why? Because I FOCUS on my dreams...not on all the CRAP which assuredly occurs on a daily basis.

But I choose to deal with and handle the crap as it comes and refocus on my dreams as quickly as possible.

Why? Because I want more of my DREAMS to manifest...not more CRAP!

Remember...YOU WILL UNDOUBTEDLY GET WHAT YOU FOCUS ON IN THIS LIFE!

I HAVE CHOSEN TO FOCUS ONLY ON THINGS I WANT IN MY LIFE!!!

But, I will admit this came after numerous years of error when I focused on things I didn't want.

Guess what happened?

You called it!

What I didn't want was attracted into my life...TIME and TIME AGAIN!!!

You'll recall earlier in this letter to you that I mentioned this journey to peace is easy. Sure I can say that after literally THOUSANDS of HOURS of studyiing success & happiness. Hundreds of hours of live seminars, thousands of hours listening to audio tapes and CD's (for a couple years right from the library), thousands of hours of reading personal & business development books.

Is that what many people would call easy? Probably not! BUT, many of those are the people who are miserable, unhappy, unsuccesful, and dread life. So whatever they did to attain that would be a torturous death sentence for me.

Like I said...it's all perspective. Life, that is.

What one person enjoys, another dreads.

The real paradox is when a person wants the results another has, whether it's peace and happiness or a level of business success, but won't make the sacrifices the other chose to take to attain those results because the envious person detests doing the things that the successful person did...like studying and listening to tapes at the library, going to seminars, networking at business functions, going to church, donating their time to a charity event.

That envious person would rather crack a beer on the couch, watch their TV, and focus on how bad they have it and how lucky everyone else is.

Here's a truth that I have found in life:

"It doesn't matter where you came from, or even where you may be right now; there are steps you can choose to take today to begin living your life full of joy, hope, love, peace, and happiness." - Tom Beal

You can say goodbye to worry, fear doubt, insecurity, anxiety, and even depression.

Is it easy?

That depends...easy is a relative term.

In my opinion not only is it easy...it's easier to lead a life full of hope, passion, love, happiness, joy, and peace.

I have found that it boils down to one word...

CHOICE!

You see in this life there are laws of sowing and reaping. Cause and effect. Yin and Yang.

Whatever you call it here is what I've found...

"In life whatever you will get whatever you focus on."

If you want to be grateful. Think of something you're grateful for.

If you want to be happy focus on something that makes you happy.

Of course the opposite is true...and that is where many people today choose to focus on.

...and guess what???

When they CHOOSE to FOCUS on things that make them miserable or sad...or even depressed...what do you think happens?

You got it! They have chosen to attract more things to be miserable, sad or depressed about.

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